Shall We (Sun)Dance?

Just to note... Amy picked the title of this particular blog. I wanted "S-A-F-E-T-Y (Sun)Dance". I'm back from my blogging hiatus. Amy and I just got back from the wonderful Sundance Film Festival. We both accomplished personal records for most movies watched in one day in a theater (3)! Sundance was a nice diversion to wedding planning. Amy and I made a pact to reinvigorate our wedding planning once we got back. I hope we keep our promise (or our wedding will be really really lame)!

We were very impressed by the quality of all the films selected for the festival. You really do leave with the feeling that you could see them all. We saw quite a few documentaries, Burma VJ in particular was very moving. Burma VJ chronicles a network of rogue videographers who captured the September 2007 Burmese government crack down on protests. This crackdown was of particular significance as the military brutally disbanded Buddhist monks protesting a government issued hike on gasoline prices.

Later that day... we took our puffy eyes to see the world premier of The Greatest, a Susan Sarandon and Pierce Brosnan tearjerker (see Susan, speaking at the podium, and Pierce, standing right behind her, in picture below). While the rest of the audience wept I held strong. This film will likely reach wide distribution. Truly a great film.. slow and methodical in its disection of grief. Well I think I've bored you enough.. passing over to Amy now!
I have always wanted to go to the Sundance. Mark and I both love movies - for the stories told, voices heard, and the truths revealed. It was great that we got to go together and I really walked away from the Festival feeling that I have fallen in love with movies again, especially with Sundance, for its ability to gather an incredible selection of films and giving the audience fresh perspectives on the new AND the old topics around.

One of my personal favorites was Cold Souls. Besides being a big fan of Paul Giamatti, who is just hilarious, I loved the question the film asks - should we unburden ourselves with the weight of our soul... and lock them up in storage so we can get a respite from it? I've always said that no matter how one is, it is important to have a soul. Watching the movie made me question myself - what exactly is one's soul? According to Wikipedia, the answer to 99.9% of all questions out there, "the soul is the immaterial part of a person. It is usually thought to consist of one's thoughts and personality, and can be synonymous with the spirit, mind or self." I think of soul as the life that lives underneath our physical being - it's what makes us who we are. It's not perfect and it weighs us down, but that's just part of the package. It's the type of thing that artificial intelligence scientists cannot create with programming. I find myself drawn to people whom I feel have souls and are conscious of their souls. When I first met Mark, that's exactly how I felt. This guy has inner depth, I had told myself. Hopefully he hasn't stored his soul away anywhere. And hopefully our marriage will help make his soul bigger (esp. if his is the size of a chickpea like Paul Giamatti's in the movie!).

PS. Other films from the Festival we recommend include: Afghan Star (Afghan's version of American Idol, except that women contestants get death threats for dancing on stage) and Mary and Max (an Australian claymation that will make you cry, laugh, and scratch your head multiple times).

PPS. Yes, Sundance is filled with celebrities. We saw: Robert Redford, Tom Arnold, Christie Brinkley, Paul Giamatti, Susan Sarandon, Pierce Brosnan, Amy Puller, Rachel Dratch, Andie McDowell, and those you recognize but don't know the name of. Apparently Paris Hilton was spotted at an Axe Party we had passed up on. The thing is, celebrities are people too. And then you realize that some people just need a little too much attention and think of themselves as a little too important. Wonder what they have done with their souls...

We HAVE A DATE!!!

We have a date!!! Mark your calendars - August 8, 2009, will go down in history as the date when Mark and I tie the knot! We hope you'll be able to join us on our special day here in San Francisco!! Let the rest of wedding planning begin - we are ready for ya (or as much as we can be)!

xoxo,
m&a

Growing old together... with Wii?

The Wii was supposedly one of the most gifted items this past holiday season. That was certainly the case in the Hwang/Hsiao household. Mark's parents and my parents BOTH ended up getting us a set of Wii (+ extra games) and Mark had gotten me the Wii Fit game as part of my present as well (hinting that I should work out more...). So, of course, Mark and I have been pretty obsessed with this ingenious entertainment for the last couple of weeks (it's a great distraction from wedding planning). Sometimes we stay up till the wee (no pun intended) hours of the night playing ping pong (Wii Sports game) against each other; other times we race each other collecting coins in race cars (Mario Super Kart game - I suck at this game).

The most addictive one to-date, though, has been the Wii Fit game. First and foremost, it pronounces my Wii Fit age as an impressive 48, thanks to my lack of coordination and balance. Apparently, Mark is my junior at age 41. Sadness. With ages comparable to those a generation above us, we decided it was time to get fit, via Wii Fit. So, we battle it out in balance games like soccer (I recently passed the 300 pt mark!!), table tilting (you have to see it to get it), and exercises like the yoga tree pose.

Is this what Mark and I are going to be doing up until we get very very old? As a marketer, the beauty of the Wii is the amazing number of new "category" users the game has brought, from the traditional young kids to old seniors who host Wii Tennis tournaments in senior homes! And yes, I can see Mark and I continuing to compete against each other in Wii games (I continue to kick his a*s in boxing while he slaughters me in tennis) until we are in our 80s.

That's the thing about marriage. With the engagement, the future between us seemed to have extended to the far, far distant. It was no longer a 6-month or 1-year view forward; we started looking at our plans in the next 3-5 years, 10 years, 20 years. Most of it are, of course, unknowns, but there is something comforting in knowing that there is someone you love so much that you will grow grey hair with. Maybe I will continue to kick his a*s in boxing and he with me in tennis when we are 85. Or maybe not.

"PHO"NATICS!

Taking a break from wedding planning blogging, I thought I would update everyone on our latest project - founding the "PHO"NATICS, an organization of people "pho"natic (get it?) about Vietnamese pho. Yes, read on. :)

So, as it goes, Mark's life-long dream has been to start such an organization. As part of his Christmas present this year, I took him to My Trick Pony http://www.mytrickpony.com, a custom t-shirt company located in the Castro in SF, to help him bring his vision to life. Since my Illustrator skills are embarrassing, I knew I needed to solicit the help of professional graphic designers at My Trick Pony to help design our organization logo. After an hour plus of working together, she did an amazing job in bringing OUR vision of the PhoNATICS logo to life, complete with a bowl of pho in the name. Then, we got the t-shirt printed, with Mark as Phonatic "player" #1, nicknamed "Sriracha" and myself as #2 "Noodles", named after our favorite ingredients in pho. Check out my photos on Flickr for details.

During the holidays while we were in San Diego, we were taken to supposedly the best pho restaurant in San Diego. And we were NOT disappointed. While one could argue that being the best pho house in San Diego may not be the most impressive title in the grand scheme of things, let me tell you, the pho was pretty impressive. Again, check out my Flickr for details.

Mark and I are soliciting new members to PhoNATICs and planning on organizing pho outings here in San Francisco shortly. We are hoping to start m&a style pho restaurant reviews as well (more to come on that later). Let us know if you would like to join or if you would like to start your own chapter in the city you reside!

Phonatic about pho,
m&a

We survived the meeting of the parents!

Quick blog today and Mark and I are TIRED!!! The meeting of the parents went well -- they got along great and we have their blessings to get married! Yeepee! It helped that R&G Lounge's food didn't disappoint! So our tummies were happy too. Nitey nite!

xoox,
m&a

Wedding planning in the new year!

Happy new year! Gosh, I can't believe my last post was back during Thanksgiving! December was a total blur. I now understand the need for a professional wedding planner when a bride-to-be has a full-time job. For some reason, my work load triples during December (based on the sample size of 2 years I've been at Clorox). Wedding planning took a siesta when I was getting no siestas myself. It also didn't help that the vendors weren't calling us back. Yeah, what's up with that? The whole vendor-managing thing is a whole experience in itself. I mean, shouldn't they want our $$s??? Anyways, now that we are in January, Mark and I are ready to refocus again on wedding planning. We are now looking at getting married at a chapel in the Presidio in San Francisco, followed by a wedding reception at a gallery in the SOMA neighborhood of San Francisco. Wedding date wise, we are focused on a few Saturdays in August. Fingers crossed our meeting next Wednesday with the gallery goes well and that we walk away with a deal and a date available.

In the mean time, the parents are meeting each other in 2 days. Mark's parents are driving up from LA, where they have been the last few days visiting relatives (they live in DC), to do a formal meet and green with my parents. Mark and I believe good food is the answer to all questions and we are taking them to R&G Lounge http://www.yelp.com/biz/r-and-g-lounge-san-francisco in San Francisco to let those famous crabs do the trick. :) Since some relatives and close family friends will be joining as well, a banquet meal is in the works - yum! The funny this is that we actually have a wedding banquet to go to at Koi Palace Dublin tonight - I am definitely starting the new year the right way with two banquet meals in 3 days! Wedding dress fitting - here I come!!

Here is to a fantastic new year filled with love, happiness, laughters, and many of life's surprises!!